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Guardian Island's RumpUs Rooms:
Help and info for Using the Guardian Island Chatrooms
GI's RumpUs Room
Rules - [updated June 07, 2011]
Not many, but we have a very
special population in our
Community, and we're here to
protect them as best we can.
- No treatment of
ANYONE which they haven't
consented to: No has to mean
no. Adults roleplaying as
younger are NOT subject to the
authority of just any adult -- get
permission before being
authoritative with an Innerkid
you don't know well, please. Sincere and real Guardian-types will understand this intuitively. (Click on a
person in the room/occupant list
on the right, and choose Private
Message to make sure your
attentions are wanted.)
- Be mellow. This is meant to be a laid-back place. It is a Virtual room in a Virtual community on a Virtual Island. It's not real. Nothing that happens here is really happening, so it's not worth being a stressor in your life, or causing a stressor in someone else's life. Sit back. Unclench. Breathe. Life is but a dream.
- You must understand that YOU
are the primary Guardian for
yourself here, as in the rest of
the world.
If you're an Innerkid and don't like something that's being done to you, your Bigperson is responsible for politely telling the person that what they're doing isn't right for you right now. If they persist, then please let me know and I will speak to them. If they continue, I will remove them from the Island.
If you
don't like something that's
happening around you, there is a simple
X button (on the top-right of the
chat window) you can click to
bail out. If you feel harassed
by someone, of course, please let me know immediately.
Otherwise please focus on the people you like, ignore the ones you don't, be gentle with newcomers, and re-read Rule #2 above.
- Minors aren't permitted in
our chatrooms, sorry. While it
may appear that things are set
up for kids, there are profound
differences between
Adult Ageplay and what's
appropriate for actual children.
Adult Ageplay often involves
victims of childhood sexual
abuse, and actual
children could be traumatized
themselves by such topics --
Please
eject now if you are a
minor, or if your local
community would consider themes
of Adult Ageplay unacceptable.
- Everyone here is a
biological adult who
roleplays other ages for
therapeutic reasons. Nothing
here ever refers to children,
just adults with an
emotionally-real
Innerkid, and those who're
fulfilled by helping them
through their journey.
No discussion or roleplay
anywhere, any time, which involves children, animals,
criminal activity, or generally
karmically-heinous things. Please be clear that you are an adult who is
roleplaying as younger, and not
an actual child.
- Interpersonal issues (arguments, etc) will be taken private. Bickering can be particularly unsettling for Innerkids with childhood emotional abuse issues (not to mention boring to everyone else), so take negative, disruptive interaction private by moving to another room, continuing using private messages, or continuing somewhere off-Island.
- You must adhere to the
content rating for any given
room. That rating uses the MPAA system and appears in
brackets beside the room
while in the chatrooms, and more
detail about each room is
available
here. Some
Innerkids would be very
traumatized to be exposed to
sexuality, and they will keep
themselves safe by not being in
rooms where that's allowed --
being inappropriate for the room
you are in is strictly
verbotten, and
moderators will act if you
are. This is an important issue,
so we'll have to be hard-cases
about it.
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